婚姻
两大圣训实录共载
两大圣训实录共载
Sahih al-Bukhari 5066, Sahih Muslim 1400
传述人: Abdullah ibn Masud
يَا مَعْشَرَ الشَّبَابِ مَنِ اسْتَطَاعَ الْبَاءَةَ فَلْيَتَزَوَّجْ فَإِنَّهُ أَغَضُّ لِلْبَصَرِ وَأَحْصَنُ لِلْفَرْجِ وَمَنْ لَمْ يَسْتَطِعْ فَعَلَيْهِ بِالصَّوْمِ فَإِنَّهُ لَهُ وِجَاءٌ
O young people, whoever among you is able to marry should marry, for it helps lower the gaze and guard chastity. Whoever cannot should fast, for it diminishes desire.
核心提醒
It frames marriage as protection, discipline, and a lawful structure for desire.
婚姻
两大圣训实录共载
两大圣训实录共载
Sahih al-Bukhari 5090, Sahih Muslim 1466
传述人: Abu Hurayrah
تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لِأَرْبَعٍ لِمَالِهَا وَلِحَسَبِهَا وَلِجَمَالِهَا وَلِدِينِهَا فَاظْفَرْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ
A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, and her religion. So choose the one with religion, may your hands be rubbed with dust.
核心提醒
It makes deen the decisive criterion when other attractions compete for attention.
婚姻
两大圣训实录共载
两大圣训实录共载
Sahih al-Bukhari 5185, Sahih Muslim 1468
传述人: Abu Hurayrah
اسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا
Take good care of women.
核心提醒
It places ihsan and responsible treatment at the center of marriage.
婚姻
可靠
可靠
Jami at-Tirmidhi 3895
传述人: Aishah
خَيْرُكُمْ خَيْرُكُمْ لأَهْلِهِ وَأَنَا خَيْرُكُمْ لأَهْلِي
The best of you are the best to their families, and I am the best of you to my family.
核心提醒
It makes goodness in the home a primary measure of real character, not public reputation.
婚姻
可靠
可靠
Sahih Muslim 1468b
传述人: Abu Hurayrah
لاَ يَفْرَكْ مُؤْمِنٌ مُؤْمِنَةً إِنْ كَرِهَ مِنْهَا خُلُقًا رَضِيَ مِنْهَا آخَرَ
A believing man should not hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her traits, he will be pleased with another.
核心提醒
It trains spouses to resist totalizing resentment and to keep justice and balance in marriage.